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"Parents based in north London wants to find an extraordinary and experienced tutor to support their youngest child on his early path to turning into an British gentleman."

When reading this post, you might readily miss the term "beginning" as mere figurative language.

However, it could be the crucial aspect of this distinctive employment listing, as it attempts to hire a mentor for a one-year-old.

Hundreds of responses have since been sent in since the unidentified family advertised their call for the £180k-a-year tutor, who has to be "someone very special".

In recent few weeks, the listing has attracted attention in the news, with many asking why?

Forward-Thinking Method

The CEO, CEO and founder of Tutors International, which is assisting the family in their quest, said that notwithstanding first skepticism, he considered the concept "forward-looking", and "innovative".

When he spoke with the family, he said they appreciated the unusual aspect of their requirement, and how early in age their son is.

However, they stated that they "didn't want to wait any longer" to engage a tutor, as they had held off until their older child was five, and by that age "cultural bias had by then set in".

What exactly does the family mean by "cultural leaning"?

It's "comprehensive", the expert responded. "The way you eat, how you speak".

He explained the firstborn had absorbed "extremely delicate, non-verbal cues" from the family, and had taken on their cultural habits. The family informed him they wished to avoid this pattern to recur with their new baby.

The strategy: To engage a British tutor, who needs to speak with RP, to shape the baby from day one.

Osmotic Learning

"Much of the learning at the beginning here is somewhat acquired indirectly," stated the expert.

It's via this osmosis that the family are aiming the child will acquire the UK customs they aim to cultivate.

The consultant noted the tutor needed to be somebody who attended "the right kinds of schools – the same kinds of schools as the family plan to send their son to".

"The tutor simply needs to be the suitable individual, they'll be doing things they don't even know they're doing, effortlessly," he said.

Expense Not a Factor

The family told the expert the successful candidate should preferably also have understanding of or enthusiasm in horse riding, alpine skiing, creative fields and instrumental training so as to shape the child in a wide range of interests.

More than that though, he stated the family wanted the tutor to enrol the child on a variety of classes so the child would be "equestrian training and picking up an musical instrument by the time they are approximately three years old".

In the family's perspective, assisting their son develop into a "English gentleman" will result in success and open doors.

"Considering the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's undoubtedly a status symbol," he adds.

However, despite all this tutelage in "English culture", would the child adopt so-called cultural influence from the globally influenced family he is raised by anyway?

"Absolutely", answered the CEO. "They understand this might not succeed, but they've simply adopted the attitude of, 'we should try and we should start as quickly as we can', because the expense of it is irrelevant," he said.

Impractical

There are some in the education sector who express these doubts.

An education leader, head and founder of a tutoring service, who provides individual instructors, commented that "the process of adopting dual cultures, or indeed, becoming oneself, is something that must be grown into, not engineered."

Peter wrote that he had emigrated from the Far East to the United Kingdom at the period of 7 years old, and had been brought up understanding and practicing both cultures. He progressed to study at Cambridge University.

"The notion that a single person can act as a embodiment of English culture, an individual who can possibly transplant the characteristics of a UK sophisticate onto a infant child, appears optimistic and unrealistic," he wrote.

"Based on my background, engaging a distinctly British tutor from babyhood will not instantly create the result they desire.

"I did not have such a figure, and yet I have been privileged enough to experience many of the experiences they hope for their son."

He stated: "The fact is, personal identity can not be imposed from the external environment; it must be embraced, and it must originate internally."

Acquiring Englishness

Naturally, UK identity is something the expert believes can be taught – and marketed.

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